Written by Dirty D, the infamous party
host for TampaBukkake.com and
GangBangCrew.com. This educational
information is the result of his years of experience, observation and
practice from hosting hundreds of swinger events!
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| Thou Shalt Not Stalk | Privacy / Discretion |
| Presentation | Conversation |
| Respect | Body Language |
| Crowding | Etiquette |
| Treat a Couple as a Couple | Recruiting |
One of the biggest problems with single male swingers is Stalking. I have seen attractive women come to swingers events and get followed from room to room by overzealous guys. Following a lady like a shadow is a great way to ruin your chances, maybe forever. Take a moment to introduce yourself to the lady and if she is not single, make sure you include her husband/boyfriend in your conversations. Stalking is not going to encourage any woman to play...
First impressions are critical. Dress to impress. You should take the same care in your appearance as you would on a date. Arrive fresh and clean. No one wants to smell you. If I do, you will be asked to take a shower the first time and solidly ejected the second time. Most women do not want to hurt your feelings by saying something to you, but they may never play with you again, or you may never get invited due to your poor hygiene!
One of our rules is very blunt: "If you make anyone uncomfortable, you will be quickly escorted out." Respect means people and property. You should treat the party location as if it is your own house. Don't arrive empty handed, park responsibly, keep the noise down, toss empty drinks and condoms, keep the bathrooms clean, stay sober and HAVE FUN!
Too many men trying to get at a woman that is openly playing will ruin the fun for everyone. A woman may have a guy fucking her while she is sucking someone else and maybe even giving a hand job at the same time... If there is a woman on the bed and three guys are around her, don't be the fourth. You will only be crowding the bed! Crowding can also cause the room to heat up or the woman to feel overwhelmed. Too many guys crowded around a lady can block the view and their significant other will want to watch. Remember, too many cocks will spoil the punch...
Why would a woman fuck you if you won't even say "Hi"? Why would a man let you fuck his wife if you won't acknowledge his existence? Engage a couple together and on the same level. Do not wait until the husband or boyfriend leaves his date unattended to strike up a conversation or to get more aggressive... If you have been talking to a couple, do not "Make your move" if the man leaves for a minute! Geesh, do you really think she was desperately waiting for her husband to leave so she could jump your bones?
A certain amount of discretion is assumed at Swinger events, yet I hear inappropriate questions and conversations all the time. Do not ask anyone's last name! Do not ask what someone does for a living! Do not ask where someone lives! Many swingers are operating incognito and do not appreciate direct questions. This is an environment where you can talk openly about sex, take advantage of it...
Do not be a wallflower. Talk with people and you will be rewarded! Cliquish behavior (only talking to people you already know) is a sure way to limit the fun at the party. It is common to be nervous, everyone was nervous at their first party! Talk to everyone and don't forget to smile!
Watch for body language clues. Women usually go to great lengths to not be confrontational. If a woman slightly moves away when you are touching her, it means that she is not interested. If she has told you "Maybe Later", do not approach her again, let her approach you.
Kissing: Just because you are allowed to fuck a man's date does not mean you can kiss her or make love to her for hours. Kissing and making love are on a different emotional level than sex. Sex and Love are indeed two different things! You are a sex object.... Enjoy it!
One of the most common single male swinger mistakes is to try and meet ladies on the side. This is a natural human ritual but remember that the lady or couple came to the party - TO PARTY. They are not looking for another person to add to their relationship. They are likely to return to a party, but they are not very likely to want to have dinner with you on Wednesday night... Swingers Parties are not a singles dance or dating service! If a lady or couple is interested in you, outside of the parties, they will approach you to exchange information. A good rule to follow "If someone is interested, they will seek YOU out."
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